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Sunday, March 08, 2009

Why Indians Love ‘Summer of 69’?

The threat of being expelled from this blog is making me write this post. I know it has been a long hiatus and I haves some serious explanations to do.

My first serious association with Angrezi Music began after joining B-school. There were a few rock and blues fans in my engineering college, some of them my very close buddies (and of course there were Vengaboys and Backstreet Boys) but somehow I never got hooked to Bryan Adams and his ilk. My first introduction to rock was by Pink Floyd’s ‘Coming Back to Life’. The credit of course goes to the co-author and founder of this blog. Since then, I have listened to a multitude of English songs of different genres, liked a handful of them and have come back to those I liked.

Coming to music in languages which haven’t originated in (and hence don’t belong to) the Indian sub-continent, the number of Indians who listen them are really very few. And even fewer can really appreciate the music. By ‘languages of Indian sub-continent’ I mean Hindi, Hinglish, Urdu (Sufi genre, Paki bands) and a dozen or so regional languages. I am making this statement after living amongst and observing some very cosmopolitan populations. Even among the progeny of the so-called pop culture, products of MTV generation, people who have watched more Hollywood movies than desi flicks and of course, the ‘Global Indians’, the percentage of people who listen to Angrezi Gaane is miniscule. Then again if you go by absolute numbers, the sheer number of people who are immersed in it is also quite large.

But even the most complete ignorance of rock, blues, country music etc. doesn’t stop people from listening to and enjoying two songs – ‘Summer of 69’ and ‘Hotel California’. Any jukebox, in any decent pub of the country worth its salt will play these two numbers. Now I know that Café Mondegars and Leopolds don’t play them. I was thinking the other day what is so special about ‘summer of 69’. Then it stuck me it’s probably the lyrics which reminds you of a past long forgotten.

For most middle class Indians, the college days constitute their fondest memories. It applies to everybody irrespective of whether one has attended St. Stephen’s or Babban Rao College of Engineering (I hope there’s no college by that name!). It’s the first time many people come out of home and taste independence. Unlike the Western societies where the kids are pretty much on their own once they enter high school, our Indian culture encourages hand holding by parents for quite a long time. So, the majority of us have never known/experienced phenomena like ‘proms’, ‘dating’ etc.

Then, we enter college. Many experience their first brush with ‘Co-education’, have their first crushes, taste alcohol, tobacco and many ‘forbidden’ things for the first time. We go through an emotional roller coaster which includes everything from adolescent insecurities to idealism and courage to change the world. At some point or the other we all think we can conquer the world. Then, there are those long drives (with ‘You-know-who’ on the backseat) of the bike borrowed from your roommate, stealing a few moments of privacy during the final night of college fest and beer drinking sessions with the ‘macho-est of machos’ (read mechanical engineers).

Then, one fine day the college and those carefree days end with farewell parties, signature days and zillions of photo clicks. And we enter our professional lives and slowly our idea of fun takes a new dimension. Terms like accountability, responsibility enter our lexicon. You have somebody whom you ‘report to’. ‘Bunking Office’ is no longer as simple as ‘Bunking College’. Your idea of fun becomes drinking expensive whiskies and liqueurs with some pot-bellied middle aged men (other wise called office colleagues) to build ‘relationships’. Camaraderie and bonhomie is replaced by back (and sometimes butt) slapping. All relationships are actually ‘investments’ and ‘networking’. Once you have a family of your own, you hardly remain a guy who used to think he can change the world and who used to leave for North India trip with 150 rupees in his wallet. With passing time people become more cynical about life and everything around them.

I think somehow, somewhere this is in sharp contrast with the lives of Westerners. We may call them morally bankrupt and accuse them of lacking family values but at the end of the day they know how to enjoy their lives. Simply because there’s only one life and it is YOURS. ONLY YOURS. Attribute it to their individualistic culture or maturity of their societies but they have a higher element of fun in their lives than their Indian counterparts. I am not saying that they don’t live a life tied to the mill and don’t have the mundane worries of life. But in spite of them they do what gives them happiness unburdened by the expectations of people around them. It’s not just heading of the pub after Friday’s work. It’s much more than that. So, your son’s appearing for board exams doesn’t stop your from climbing the Alps or do museum hopping in Prague or snorkeling in the Great Coral Reef or attending concerts of Royal Philharmonic Orchestra. Now the reason why they are more adventure seeking than us lies in their upbringing. Moreover, economic well-being is also a reason why they can indulge in more means of conventional fun than us. Still I am quite sure that even the Indians with similar economic standing are much less traveled, less fun-seeking and in short lead a more mundane life than their western counterparts.

So, when they read Chetan Bhagat’s books (priced so very appropriately at Rs 90) and listen to KK’s ‘Yaaron’ and numbers like ‘Puraani Jeans’, they remember those bygone days of real friends – friends beyond time and space.

Finally, when Bryan Adams croons ‘Those were the best days of my life’, we all go back to those days, those long forgotten faces and events flash before our eyes. It was a different place at a different time. And yes, those were the best days of my life.

Saturday, November 01, 2008

Birthday and Diwali - Home alone

Run up to the birthday was intimidating as roomates ditched me for a reasonable home visit during diwali, which left me alone for a long weekend...Sunday was coool, got a lovely bunch of carnations from better half, loved them...

A couple of friends surprised me, one came from Mumbai, for a lovely midnight cake cutting ceremony :)

Early in the evening, I had a small get together at some chinese restaurant (idea came from a friend who is visiting china for a couple of months and wanted to get used to the food there!).

I slept around 330 in the morning only to wake up at 630 with wishes from family and friends...Unfortunately office was open, though no souls around, and I had some boring time :P

Diwali was just next day, and I had no idea what to do until a friend invited me home for diwali puja followed by dinner, yumm...Had a great time there, bursting crackers and humming traditional puja verses...

Now bro's marriage is around the corner, fun gauranteed...

Butterfly Effect 2

well, i must confess the lack of creativity in butterfly effect 2. watching it was repetition of the concept introduced in its parent movie and i was bored...they made it worse by adding a couple of steamy scenes (bah!) for appeal and for obvious reasons they didnt serve their purpose of thrilling the kind of audience who came back to watch this sequel...

wish i could go back and change my decision to watch this part - 2
hehehe....

Saturday, October 25, 2008

Butterfly Effect

Today I watched this movie called Butterfly effect. Started watching it with the idea that a small effect would lead to a number of consequences and it turned out to be a thriller as a teenager (Ashton Kutcher) tries his best to correct the situation best for all...his mother, his girlfriend (Amy smart) and her brother, his best friend...but things dont turn out as expected always and he keeps traveling through tough choices...

i liked the build up of the movie and surprises as they came suddenly...wishing all the way through that the things should end in bollywood style - happy ending...i dont know if that happened as the movie concluded, but it left a good impression on me :)

its sequel "Butterfly effect 2" was released in 2006, guess thats what i wanna watch next...

i recommend watching this movie to people who like mystery, thrill and drama...bon watching...

Saturday, September 20, 2008

Quote of the day

We all die. The goal isn't to live forever, the goal is to create something that will...

Friday, January 26, 2007

Walk the talk...

6:40 am: Just came back from college!! the whole batch was supposed to reach at 5 in the morning for cleaning the campus...or rather i should say our hearts (as diro says!)...there were only 20 students from my college for the republic day yesterday while the other 2 colleges on our campus have good strength..for obvious reasons, we invited problems for us...a batch meet
was called for - at 5am next morning and we are not supposed to leave the campus before 9pm once we reach for our class at 9am!!! Welcome to B-school...anything's possible...

My motivations for writing this blog is not to describe what all happened today morning (the description is hilarious though!), but to bring out the fact how WE, as students/youth of today, have neglected a day which meant so much to the whole nation...when the whole college is lit and celebrating, why do we have to hide ourselves behind excuses of academic rigor, morning yoga or assignments...

I think its time to walk the talk and stop bragging about a tough life..i feel its a choice that we made and we should bravely live it and come out with a transformation we always yearn for ourselves...

Time for a quick nap before i go for my six sigma class at 9am...it was a good awakening...:)

Monday, January 22, 2007

Are you ready!

Let me begin this by congratulating all who have got calls from SCMHRD!




I was in the same shoes last year...trying my best to get as much info as possible so that i be prepared for the last battle before i reach my destination...but trust me its just a start, the rough terrain continues and an MBA really brings a transformation!

And thats precisely the reason it is important for the interviewers to pick the best of the lot who can survive and who can contribute to the academic setup in the best way! So if you are preparing for the interview, it is imp to understand whats going on in an interviewer's mind...the basic things are: leadership and team skills (we work in teams a lot), high learnability ( 18 subjects per sem!), enthusiasm and energy (8 hrs of classes besides assignments), clarity of thought (make the right decisions is taught all thru)...so questions will be around these qualities...

A systematic approach will be ---

1. Self - inrospection (why mba, what future goals, strenghts/weaknesses, hobbies, interests, how can u make a difference)
2. think about ur past - experiences/instances wen u succeeded, failed, led - remember examples
3. if fresher - revise 1-2 fav subjects and summer training; if work -ex - be ready for questions based on them...
4. work on ur confidence, body language and communication skills, spend time speaking.dicussing with friends and try to listen and speak well (this will help in GDs as well)...
5. read newspapers / magazines (though not much of it comes) so that u have data to discuss and make opinions about ongoing issues...

Please note that the list above is not exhaustive but just an indicative of what questions might be asked...
if you have any specific questions, u may mail me at vermaraman@yahoo.com

Wishing you all the best and see you in college...

Saturday, December 09, 2006

2nd Quarter Results – Six Months at a B-school.

Disclaimer: Many opinions aired in this particular post may not be condoned by the co-contributor and the original owner of this blog - Raman. Please send all the bricks and bouquets to Roy, the cynical one.
I had heard and read a lot about life @ a B-school. Both good and bad. Mostly from friends who had made it to similar places and public forums like PG et al. But experiencing it first hand is a different ball-game altogether.
This is a strange place which at times makes you behave in a strange manner.

Welcome to the world of perennial sleep starvation, marketing jargons, impromptu batch meets where balance sheets never tally and mastering excel is a necessity for survival. Maslow’s Hierarchy of needs is probably the most important pyramid after that of Pharos. The race to meet the deadlines, the fight to get into the hot shot committees, the arcane quizzes, the occasionally insane workload, the nightouts, weird assignments where Google is the messiah. All are part of this life.

Lots to learn here - both in the classroom and out of the classroom. Especially from the peer group. Here we have quite a diverse batch – from CAs to a marine engineer to a lawyer. Before coming here I never knew that you can do so many things on excel or rather excel can do so many things for you. You study everything from labor laws to consumer behavior to inventory management and wonder what you are actually here for.

The glamour quotient which you associate with a B-school before coming gets considerably reduced once you come here. This entire trumpet blowing of workload and stress is nothing but hype and hoopla. An over exaggeration, I would say. I realize that this place is not perfect just like all other things in this world.

At first, 18 subjects in 1st sem, 10 hour of lectures everyday, quizzes every Saturday (you don’t know which subjects’ quiz will come this Saturday), no concept of Sundays or week offs gives you the impression of great academic rigor. The system is good on paper but there are enough numbers of loopholes, for the ingenious ones, to exploit. There have been hardly 6-7 days in the last six months when I have felt really stressed out. (Of course this doesn’t include the exam days). At times I feel that I had more pressure in my engineering college with 3 internals every semester.

If there is sleep deprivation, it is probably more as a result of late night sessions of ‘Age of Empires’ and ‘Counterstrike’ rather than some weird assignment on Linear Programming. After a month or so, people started sleeping in the class unabashedly. And the best part is that profs (apart from a few exceptions) don’t mind. They understand. Of course, the skill of sleeping in the class with open eyes or at least in a manner which will not attract the attention of the faculty is an asset.

The unending streams of assignments are initially done using the Japanese practice of inventory management, Just-in-time (J.I.T) and eventually using S.H.I.T (some how in time). Of course, Google is your savior here. I wonder how many of us would have been able to complete their PGDM if Sergey and Larry hadn’t come up with their invention. There are times you feel that the only thing you will be good at after coming out of this institute is getting the right thing out of Google in the smallest possible time. How I wish somebody pays me loads of cash for this particular skill.

The Saturday quizzes are even funnier. Lots of permutations and combinations are worked out on every Friday evening in an attempt to guesstimate the subject which is going to screw your happiness on the next day. You listen to the rumors or rather grapevines (hey I have flunked in OB) going rounds in the hostel corridors and mess tables. Then you zero in on a subject or two, which results mostly in a correct prediction (touchwood!!). But at times your prediction backfires horribly. You study marketing and go, only to find an economics paper. And then comes our collective ability of bullshitting. You write whatever you feel just to fill the pages. As far as studying is concerned, you initially start on Thursday. Then, eventually after a few weeks, a combination of procrastination and boldness pushes the start of studying to Friday evening, then to Friday late night and finally to Saturday. The reason may be partly attributed to the fact that excess of anything diminishes its importance. Finally, what results is the mockery of a well-intentioned system of evaluation.

The early morning tribulations (read non academic activities viz. yoga, aerobics and gym) is a unique feature of this particular B-school. You curse the system, swear the authorities but still turn up day after day. You, the bleary eyed one, do some weird asanas and dance with music. The incentive is not health but attendance which is probably the most important thing here after God. It is a necessary evil to get your PGDM. Sometimes you start wondering whether you have come here for learning something or keeping 90% attendance in all subjects. Believe me, 90 is the most sacred figure here and there is a lot of number crunching involved to make sure that you touch this magic figure.

The faculty is okay. Actually the permanent faculty sucks but visiting ones are mostly good. Some are demigods, if not God. They mostly have those six coveted letters stamped on their CVs – IIT IIM. The way they teach, the layman level examples they give, explaining things logically, analytically, the way they push your thought process to its limits is simply amazing but such profs are hardly one or two in number. As always, the best are outnumbered by the mediocres. And as always I just love the pep talks, philosophical discussions about life at a B-school with our teaching greats. Some of them encourage introspection and make you step back and think, which is probably the only thing I am good at. You realize how important it is to develop an original thought process which is structured, logical and is based on a sound reasoning. Now I realize why some MBAs get paid such obscene amounts of money (those who get paid such amounts).

Just like the 4 Ps of marketing, we have 4 Ps of management education – Presentations, parties, placements and paychecks. The last two being the most important. That is precisely the reason all of us are here. Everything else is incidental. Never knew that ‘zero’ is as important as the ‘Day 0’ of placements indicate. I wonder when there will be a ‘day minus 1’ of placements in B-schools.

But this MBA thing is a big leveler. Here, engineers struggle with P&L accounts and balance sheets while CAs get screwed in IT systems. It some how brings everybody on an even ground.

But at the end of the day all of us have come here for different reasons. Although the common denominator is ‘transformation’, each reason is unique in itself. The ‘take away’ of all of us will be different but I guess the common ‘take-away’ will be a paradigm shift in our thinking processes. Yes, MBA gives you a new perspective towards everything that surrounds you. This training makes you look at everything around you in a different way, thinking of new dimensions and possibilities. You start appreciating the small things and intricate details which you used to take for granted. However, cynical I may have sounded above but I can see the changes in myself. Surprisingly, most of the things taught here, are pure common sense but as somebody said ‘Common Sense is not so common’. But most importantly this place teaches you humility, kills that false pride and ego which often makes us blind to others' perspectives. It teaches you to respect and appreciate others for whatever skill they may have.

Just like most of the things in life, here also the onus is on you. As one of our stellar visiting profs told us on the induction day - how much you get out of this place depends a lot on how much you will put in.

The good things of this place are discipline, strong emphasis on IT based teaching and IT oriented curriculum. This is quite a happening place with lot of out-of-the-classroom activities - from our annual B-school fest to Six Sigma Awards to live research projects – happening round the year. There are so many things happening that it is practically impossible for someone to be a part of everything.
The key to survive and excel this odd journey is, knowing where you eventually want to go, setting your priorities straight, keeping focus on your lakshya and on the way, picking up the things which are relevant to your goal.
As they say here ‘The Journey is the Reward’.
Epilogue: We have unofficial orders from the top that any bad-mouthing about the institute in public forums will be severely dealt with. Keeping in mind this fact, I have refrained from naming the insitute and tried to disguise all details as much as possible.